I have a couple of neighbors who are homeschooling. This post is not about the merits of homeschooling vs. public school, although I will say that there are cases where homeschooling is the best fit for the child, but in a few cases I've seen the kids are begging to go back to school. H is now in second grade, and I still think that public school is the way to go for us. And here's why:
1. H and I need a break from each other. If we don't get that 6 hour break that school provides us, we fight. It isn't pleasant for any of us.
2. If she didn't have to get up and go to school, she would sleep in half the day and never get out of her pajamas. I know this because while my body forces me to get out of bed, I am often in my pajamas unless it is a day I am volunteering at the classroom.
3. Social skills. As an only child, H needs all the help with social skills she can get. And she likes people.
4. It is fun to volunteer in the classroom. You get to see what your kid is like at school, you get to know the other kids, and the kids are excited to see you. Plus this curries favor with the teacher.
5. I still suck at math and science. I can't teach those things to H.
6. I suck at teaching H anything that isn't related to Star Wars. And much like I don't like learning things from my husband, H doesn't like learning things from me.
7. Seeing how your kid compares to the rest of the class helps eliminate "special snowflake syndrome" when you find out while your kid is advanced in one subject, she is average in another.
8. It is still fun to buy school supplies, and even more fun to be the class hero when you supply whiteboard markers for the whole class.
9. If you suffer from a lack of follow thru, like most of us, homeschooling is not for you. I know someone who said her mom had an issue with the school system, so she pulled her kid out of high school yet never actually bought a curriculum or anything. I think eventually she got her GED. We attempt to do summer homeschooling in the summer, it lasts about a week and then we just give up.
10. The best way to learn how to deal with peer pressure is to experience it.
11. Class parties are really fun, and it doesn't matter what you do, the kids love it.
12. I think it would break H's heart to see all the kids going to school while she has to stay home with me.
13. If you put your kid in public school and then volunteer, you are helping to make the school, the community, and the world a better place.